When I was dating, it was crazy sometimes... when I was in my best condition, I actually had women that looked plenty sexy tell me they would never let someone like me see them undressed; they were self conscious that I was in better shape. Smoking was another big problem. Not that I mind it so much, but if I dated any woman who smoked, she felt guilty and tried not to smoke around me. As a result, she was miserable craving a cigarette all the time, didn't enjoy herself, and the relationship wouldn't last very long.
My wife actually quit smoking a few months into our relationship, (we've been together about 5 years) switched from yoga to weight training, and is currently preparing for her first BB competition. She isn't doing it for me. I never asked her to or expected it of her. I just showed it to her. She grabbed it and ran with it.
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